你发觉到了吗？

你发觉到了吗？

爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，
你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、
恋著你，不论做什么事情，
只要能一起，就是好的，


但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，
你开始发现了对方的缺点，
於是问题一个接著一个发生，
你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，


有人说爱情就像在捡石头，
总想捡到一个适合自己的，
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？
她适合你，那你又适合她吗?


其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，
或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，
但是记住人是有弹性的，
很多事情是可以改变的，
只要你有心、有勇气，
与其到处去捡未知的石头，
还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮，你开始磨了吗？



很多人以为是因为感情淡了，
所以人才会变得懒惰。
错！
其实是人先被惰性征服，
所以感情才会变淡的。



在某个聚餐的场合，
有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好，
这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前，当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候，
她说要吃十只虾，我就剥二十只给她！
现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，开玩笑！我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳咧！」

听到了吗？明白了吗？
难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱，
却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。
因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。
如果每个人都
懒得讲话、
懒得倾听、
懒得制造惊喜、
懒得温柔体贴，
那么夫妻或是情人之间，
又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？


所以请记住：
有活力的爱情，
是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，
谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！



有一对情侣，相约下班後去用餐、逛街，
可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了，
当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟，
他的男朋友很不高兴的说：
你每次都这样，现在我甚么心情也没了，
我以後再也不会等你了！
她心里在想：或许，他们再也没有未来了



同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境；
女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，
他的男朋友说：「我想你一定忙坏了吧！」
接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上，
此刻，女孩流泪了
但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。



你体会到了吗？
其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间！
爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时，
很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了！
懂了吗？


当有个人爱上你，而你也觉得他不错。
那并不代表你会选择他。
我们总说：「我要找一个自己很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。」
但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，
你却无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。
没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。
可是後来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。


假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？
其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。
或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，
但是你有没有想过『在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，只是你没发觉而已呢？』
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧！他或许已经等你很久喽！



所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩下两三分用来爱自己。
如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来，完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。



所以请记住，
喝酒不要超过六分醉，
吃饭不要超过七分饱，
爱一个人不要超过八分



那天朋友问我：「到底该怎么做才算是爱一个人呢？」
我笑著跟他说：「其实每个人的爱情观都不一样，说对了叫开导，但就怕说错反倒变成误导。那就糟糕了！」
如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示：



爱一个人，
要了解，也要开解；
要道歉，也要道谢；
要认错，也要改错；
要体贴，也要体谅；
是接受，而不是忍受；
是宽容，而不是纵容；
是支持，而不是支配；
是慰问，而不是质问；
是倾诉，而不是控诉；
是难忘，而不是遗忘；
是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；
是为对方默默祈求，而不是向对方诸多要求；
可以浪漫，但不要浪费；
可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。

In the midst of procrastination

Hey ya~

It's been a while since the previous post. (2 months...? Oopsie :X )
I'm really sorry for not updating anything in my blog.
Been busy with my school work (excuse) and can't find anything to blog about(another excuse)

My school life in SMSA has been quite boring, well, not exactly VERY boring.
It's just that I really miss my previous school life, where I could participate in various activities held by the school.
I would really love to join any events held by the previous school, but somehow I couldn't find that enthusiasm in this school. (no offense) :X
And there's not much happenings here *le sad*

Well, why am I in the midst of procrastination?
It's because I'm actually having my End of Year examinations currently, until next next Monday, 22nd of October.
And really, I can't get a thing into my head T_T
A lot of relationship problems has been happening, and I've been searching ways to getaway with problems.
It ain't wise but it's the only thing I can do nao, cause I have to concentrate on studies currently.
Maybe I'm just not ready to tackle with relationships now. I'm so young T_T

So, in case you're wondering, what physical changes I've been through these past months
(cause I know you missed my face HEHEHE)

no..?










Well, I got my hair back to natural colour. (If you followed me in Instagram, you'll know I dyed it few weeks ago)
And got tanned... why?

Here's a picture few minutes before I got tanned!
Haha!









Yeap, that's my current school's P.E. attire.
So....
Guess what happened?



Because my General Paper class is finally bringing us to an awesome-mistic trip to snorkelling few weeks ago!! Blurp blurp!
At first we all thought that there isn't any places for snorkelling/scuba diving in Brunei.
But after researches, we found out this Poni Divers Club which is 2 hours drive away from our school!
With this club, we knew about Brunei's coral reef sites, and amazingly it's well protected!

Bruneians, believe it or not! No, this is not Labuan, this is not KK.
These pictures are actually taken in Brunei waters!

Beautiful, ain't it?
But we didn't went for scuba diving, due to its cost and student's inexperience :(
You need to get a certificate to dive in offshore waters, btw.


So, here's what we did!

Arrival of us at the Serasa Beach! 

This is where death do us apart... NO LA 

This is where they divide us into groups of 3, Alpha, Beta and Charlie (the weird one)

All 3 group's schedule are the same, but at different times.

And of course, I got into Charlie..

I must say that their management is pretty great!

then we divide each other again into 3 smaller groups.

And here's my group! The sea horses!

Actually I wanted the name to be sea unicorns :( more unique

but there's a group called sea mosquitoes, like whutttt

we had beach cleaning first! 

Chris, my big bro Ronald, Chang and Jed

well, we found a lot of weird stuffs.

I found an Ultraman head. haha

We had a small seminar about Coral reefs in Brunei by Thye(white shirt) and Evo, the angmo.

The angmo really got many girl fans from SMSA already hahaha

And nao, preparing to go to the seaaaaaaaaaaa!

Having our equipments ready! 

But first! we need to practice in shallow waters 

(as most of us never tried snorkelling before and some don't even know how to swim)

wheeeew~ 

And finally! we're ready to go offshore! :D

My group went to this boat, faster than the other one :P teehee!

And me and other 2 friends (Sinyee,Elroy) got the VIP seat, which is the most frontal part of the boat!

It's probably the best reason I won't ever regret of going to this trip and get myself tanned with 2 colours xD

And why is that so? I'm the kind of person who likes rollercoasters and loves challenging things.

And when you're seated there, waves go head-on to the boat there.

The impact may even make your ass leaves the surface of the boat.

The whole journey there, we were screaming and laughing! Haha

It's really fun! :D

But if you have a problem with seasick-ness, then you shouldn't try this seat.

this was the inner view of the other boat.

After like 5~10 minutes of boat ride, we finally arrived our destination! 

Looks really pretty inside and outside!

P.S. No one dares to take the risks of losing their cameras to the sea, so no photos of the Coral Reefs are taken.

haha! getting out of the boat!

Hey! i spotted Nemo!

And there's loads of Doris in the sea 

yayyyyyyyyyyyy! FUN FUN FUN FUN!

Looking forward to another trip!

And......... 

Here's the cute crew members! 

Here's what we did! :D
Definitely would go there again some other time!
Check out their Facebook page Poni Divers and Poni Dive Club for more info!


I guess that's enough for an update!
Will update this blog more frequently, I promise! *cross fingers*
hehe!

toodles~ 

xiaograss